For most this is a decision that you have the power to make.
Do you want to be DINK's (Dual Income No Kids) or do you want to have the white picket fence lifestyle, stay at home mom and happy lifestyle?
Notice my long explanation of the second one...obviously I know what I wanted.
Many people are not aware that chemotherapy puts the majority of women into early onset menopause, for a woman such as myself at 26 who is also a newlywed, this is a harsh reality. What was even more harsh was when Dave and I visited the fertilization clinic to find out that it would cost us $10,000 to have a less than 40% chance to have a baby in the future.
My feelings on this: I am leaving our family life to the big man upstairs! I firmly believe that I have more than a 40% chance of having a baby when this is all said and done by leaving it in his hands!
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