You may think this is easy to do right?
WRONG!
Keeping positive people around you when your life is touched with the "Big C" is NOT EASY! Remember that Cancer does not only affect you, it affects everyone around you and not everyone deals with that the same. Emotions run high and while people around you should be supporting you during these times, some may find it hard to put their own emotions on the back burner to support you.
Pick your battles!
Do you want to cry constantly because someone is brining you down or do you want to be the strong upbeat person you know you are and tell them you need some distance?
For me...it almost seemed like I was so afraid to hurt peoples feelings that I choose to suck it up, hold it in until I could get to my room and cry rather than let them know they are brininging me down and hurt their feelings. Therefore, I choose to sit in my room for sometimes up to 7 hours and cry constantly. NOT GOOD!
I really need to work on finding my voice.
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